I GOT MY CAR BACK.. WOO WOO!!!! PRAISE JESUS... :))))
So lets get back to my story... ha.. I left off that I was moving to LA.. just a little crazy idea I had... The funny thing I thought it was God's plan for me to move there and POOF.. I will get the Amazing Agency.. Husband.. Money.. House... thought this was my divine intervention calling me to Los Angeles... well.. not so much... ha ha ha
I told my mom I was going to move to LA... of course she thought I had fallen down the stairs and hit my head.. since I didn't have a dime in my pocket... or just having one of my blonde highlight moments.. :) I was serious... I was going.. and I did... Packed up my kids, and off I went.. Hollyweird here I come....
I lived in Hollywood right off Sunset Blvd. I lived right in the heart of it all... Craziness... it is amazing how different Hollywood is... wow.. eye opener for sure... My kids really didn't fit in out there but we did it for one year..
I made some really good friends out there that helped me with the rough times.. I made alot of connections out there but my family was suffering... we had no money.. never left the house.. it was rough on my kids...really wasn't what I had planned... but I will tell you.. God had me out there for a few reasons... to meet some people and talk to them about God.. and I DID... another reason so funny to me... A week before I knew I was going to move.. I started looking into a new church called Oasis in Hollywood. I was looking up kid ministries and all sorts of things for me... The church I was previously going to didn't speak to me so I wanted to find a new home church. I planned on going that next Sunday with my kids.... well during the week it became very apparent.. I financially couldn't stay in Hollywood and would have to move back to San Diego. I told James and we both in a few days started my plan for me to move back home.
I told James about the church and we both decided to go to it before I moved just to check it out. So my bestie Felicia , James and my kids went to Oasis. Well the funny thing is.. I was doing all this research on this church thinking it was for me.. well God did that for James. See God knew I was going back to San Diego and James didn't really have a home church either.. We went and BAM.... It spoke to James.. HE FOUND HIS HOME... such a blessing.. to me.. you have no idea... Now James is on the prayer team with Oasis and attends services to pray over people and also during the week he attends prayer groups to pray for all of us and the nation. Wow.. I am so happy.. to know James is home and is growing into that amazing Proverbs 5 man.. God took my sad ending to LA.. and turned it into a glorious one for me...
During that time while I was in Los Angeles.. I spent alot of time in the Lord which I still do.. I think he wanted me to get a glimpse of what I thought I wanted.. spend time into getting to know HIM and also break me down more to put me back together.. so I don't look at it as I failed.. I look at it like I won... I know now that I don't want to live in Hollywood with my children.. I would love to live in Burbank.. if God wants me to move back.. I developed this amazing relationship with my Lord.. I strengthened my friendships with my two best friends.. James and Felicia.. both my heart and soul..
Now here is the greatest part.. hold your pants.. on because I DID.. FOR REAL..lol I became celibate.. I decided in October of last year.. I was done with the hurt.. done sharing the most special part of me with jerks, men that didn't mean anything.. Everytime I did share myself.. I lost a part of myself.. I felt emptier than I did before.. I felt as if a part of my soul went with them when they shut the door.... Now I am not going to tell you that it has been easy...because I am going on two years... wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooahhhhhhhhhh!!! but it is worth it.. because I no longer worry about diseases, or being hurt, or being emotionless, or just being used like I had so many times.. I am a female.. I am sorry.. we are liars when we say we can just do it and not fall for them.. LIARS... I said that lie so many times because I thought I would lose the guy... and didn't realize that you were losing them anyways.. I have a ton of male friends..and if you knew how they feel about girls that give it up right away to them... you would never do it again... for reals... ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!! So I am not telling you all to jump on the celibate train with me.. it is a decision you and the Lord have to come too. I just for myself want to live by the bible.. and wait for my husband... and treat it like it is supposed to be.. for my marriage... :) The funny thing is because I started my celibacy.. James followed too.. I think there are now 4 of us that have been celibate for a long time now.. so it can be done.. and I know that God is preparing our wives and husbands now for us... YAYYYYYYYYY... I always said that my Mr. Right is on his path to find me must of took a wrong turn and is too stubborn to ask for directions.. LOL.. Well NOW my God is taking the wheel and driving him right to me.. HA...
I use to say also.. I don't care if my veil gets stuck in my wheelchair while I go down the aisle. ha ha. if I have to wait that long... I will.. I want what God has for me... :)
Well now you know my clean little secret.. lol.. so I move back to San Diego and I have a few huge blessings on my way home...
So lets get back to my story... ha.. I left off that I was moving to LA.. just a little crazy idea I had... The funny thing I thought it was God's plan for me to move there and POOF.. I will get the Amazing Agency.. Husband.. Money.. House... thought this was my divine intervention calling me to Los Angeles... well.. not so much... ha ha ha
I told my mom I was going to move to LA... of course she thought I had fallen down the stairs and hit my head.. since I didn't have a dime in my pocket... or just having one of my blonde highlight moments.. :) I was serious... I was going.. and I did... Packed up my kids, and off I went.. Hollyweird here I come....
I lived in Hollywood right off Sunset Blvd. I lived right in the heart of it all... Craziness... it is amazing how different Hollywood is... wow.. eye opener for sure... My kids really didn't fit in out there but we did it for one year..
I made some really good friends out there that helped me with the rough times.. I made alot of connections out there but my family was suffering... we had no money.. never left the house.. it was rough on my kids...really wasn't what I had planned... but I will tell you.. God had me out there for a few reasons... to meet some people and talk to them about God.. and I DID... another reason so funny to me... A week before I knew I was going to move.. I started looking into a new church called Oasis in Hollywood. I was looking up kid ministries and all sorts of things for me... The church I was previously going to didn't speak to me so I wanted to find a new home church. I planned on going that next Sunday with my kids.... well during the week it became very apparent.. I financially couldn't stay in Hollywood and would have to move back to San Diego. I told James and we both in a few days started my plan for me to move back home.
I told James about the church and we both decided to go to it before I moved just to check it out. So my bestie Felicia , James and my kids went to Oasis. Well the funny thing is.. I was doing all this research on this church thinking it was for me.. well God did that for James. See God knew I was going back to San Diego and James didn't really have a home church either.. We went and BAM.... It spoke to James.. HE FOUND HIS HOME... such a blessing.. to me.. you have no idea... Now James is on the prayer team with Oasis and attends services to pray over people and also during the week he attends prayer groups to pray for all of us and the nation. Wow.. I am so happy.. to know James is home and is growing into that amazing Proverbs 5 man.. God took my sad ending to LA.. and turned it into a glorious one for me...
During that time while I was in Los Angeles.. I spent alot of time in the Lord which I still do.. I think he wanted me to get a glimpse of what I thought I wanted.. spend time into getting to know HIM and also break me down more to put me back together.. so I don't look at it as I failed.. I look at it like I won... I know now that I don't want to live in Hollywood with my children.. I would love to live in Burbank.. if God wants me to move back.. I developed this amazing relationship with my Lord.. I strengthened my friendships with my two best friends.. James and Felicia.. both my heart and soul..
Now here is the greatest part.. hold your pants.. on because I DID.. FOR REAL..lol I became celibate.. I decided in October of last year.. I was done with the hurt.. done sharing the most special part of me with jerks, men that didn't mean anything.. Everytime I did share myself.. I lost a part of myself.. I felt emptier than I did before.. I felt as if a part of my soul went with them when they shut the door.... Now I am not going to tell you that it has been easy...because I am going on two years... wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooahhhhhhhhhh!!! but it is worth it.. because I no longer worry about diseases, or being hurt, or being emotionless, or just being used like I had so many times.. I am a female.. I am sorry.. we are liars when we say we can just do it and not fall for them.. LIARS... I said that lie so many times because I thought I would lose the guy... and didn't realize that you were losing them anyways.. I have a ton of male friends..and if you knew how they feel about girls that give it up right away to them... you would never do it again... for reals... ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!! So I am not telling you all to jump on the celibate train with me.. it is a decision you and the Lord have to come too. I just for myself want to live by the bible.. and wait for my husband... and treat it like it is supposed to be.. for my marriage... :) The funny thing is because I started my celibacy.. James followed too.. I think there are now 4 of us that have been celibate for a long time now.. so it can be done.. and I know that God is preparing our wives and husbands now for us... YAYYYYYYYYY... I always said that my Mr. Right is on his path to find me must of took a wrong turn and is too stubborn to ask for directions.. LOL.. Well NOW my God is taking the wheel and driving him right to me.. HA...
I use to say also.. I don't care if my veil gets stuck in my wheelchair while I go down the aisle. ha ha. if I have to wait that long... I will.. I want what God has for me... :)
Well now you know my clean little secret.. lol.. so I move back to San Diego and I have a few huge blessings on my way home...
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